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How important is money to you?

Sun Mar 21, 2010 6:09 AM EDT
health, money, cars, loans, work, financial, credit-cards, happiness, boat
By henry1966

Live Poll

Are you satisfied with your income?

View Results
  • 88674
    Yes
    8%
  • 88675
    No
    33%
  • 88676
    Can't complain
    25%
  • 88677
    Wish I had just a little bit more
    25%
  • 88678
    Money isn't important to me
    8%
  • 88679
    Other
    0%

VoteTotal Votes: 24

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" Money makes the world go round" . " Money makes life so much easier but it doesn't make you happy" . Two examples that we've heard so often about money." Do you think it grows on my back" ? " I wish I had a tree in my back yard where it grew on" . Two more that you've either have mentioned yourself or has being sad by someone close to you. There's no escape when it comes to money, we don't trade four cows for twenty chickens anymore and money is the soul purpose to differentiate ourselves from others. You might disagree on that but it's the plain truth.

Is there a day that goes by that money isn't on your mind? There's always the exception to the rule but 99 % has to deal with money on a daily base. Paying bills, doing groceries, saving up for college, paycheck, getting gas, eating out, birthdays, going on vacation, cars, insurance, clothes and everything else our 24/7 economy (society) forces us to do.

But how important is money really to you? And let me remind you how often we (un) subconsciously are responding in a socially desirable way. By that I mean when it comes to the topic of money we intend to answer with stereotypes like " health is way more important than money", " money can't buy happiness" and " I can't complain, doing good". Talking about your own financial situation is still pretty awkward and we don't want other people to know what frustrates us about money. Would you really stay with your current employer while you can make 40 % more with the competition? Are you sure you will save for ten years to buy that car so you don't have to get that loan that gives you the same car tomorrow? You never wonder how your neighbors are doing what they're doing while you have a way better job? At least that's your perception.

How satisfied are you really when you look sincerely in your wallet and your heart? Should you make more money per hour than they're paying you? Is it necessary to have five different personalize credit-cards ( gold color always sells), can you actually afford it?

Or are you that person that just like me woke up early this morning, heard some birds singing while the house was still quiet and realizes that little things like enjoying that can't be bought with money......?

If you would ask me personally I would probably tell you I can't complain.

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henry1966

Shoot away :-)

  • 2 votes
Reply#1 - Sun Mar 21, 2010 6:10 AM EDT
CCArm

Money is the root of all evil and I do not worship money.

I use my money (the limited amount I have) to take care of my family. There was a time when I wanted more, but that desire didn't bring the peace that I have now. I learned that my choices would either make or break me, so I have used the last years of working at a job to put in place a life that does not depend on the economy or the corporate world.

Yes, the birds of Spring are noticed now and my family and I are not complaining.

  • 2 votes
#1.1 - Sun Mar 21, 2010 11:23 AM EDT
henry1966

There was a time when I wanted more, but that desire didn't bring the peace that I have now.

That sounds like you've found the right balance.

    #1.2 - Sun Mar 21, 2010 2:24 PM EDT
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    bitemore

    I'm retired, so am living on a fixed income. Fortunately, it is sufficient, and I don't want for very much. I'm not wealthy, but I have what I need and a little to spare for the occasional lunch with a friend or a trip to the mall.

    Before I retired, money was more important in some ways than it is now. How much I was paid was a reflection of what the company thought I was worth, so the more, the better and it was never enough. I think we all think that: the work we do is worth much more than the cheapskate boss is paying us - so money is more of a yardstick than anything tangible. If we can pay our bills and have a few luxuries, then anything left over is never enough when we think of what we really should be getting paid.

    But, I'm no longer living 9 - 5. I sleep when I want, wake when I want, eat when I want, play when I want... and as long as I have enough income to allow for that, I am content.

    So, I can't complain.

    • 3 votes
    Reply#2 - Sun Mar 21, 2010 9:33 AM EDT
    henry1966

    But, I'm no longer living 9 - 5. I sleep when I want, wake when I want, eat when I want, play when I want... and as long as I have enough income to allow for that, I am content.

    That makes perfect sense bitemore. Being content sounds good :-)

      #2.1 - Sun Mar 21, 2010 2:26 PM EDT
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      ERich-356044

      Being a teacher, I am on a 'fixed income' meaning I haven't had a raise in the last three or four years and will expect no windfall salary increase etc. for my whole carreer. No bonus, just a fixed income. I must admit, which I don't really tell people, I do have a trust fund as well, which is not a huge windfall of money, but a small steady allowance which helps pay my mortage each month.. doesn't come close to the payment, but helps.

      I am not complaining, I actually like the expected and structure. There is no feast or famine with my income as it is consisternt. It allows my family to plan and enjoy. My hubby is a chiropractor, so his income varies depending on insurance payments etc. We aren't rich but we are comfortable and have no credit card debt. If we want something, we save up for it and proceed with caution on many things. My hubby is a research freak, so before big purchases he reads all the consumer reports and things.... me, I just indulge in a purse now and then. Since I work with a low socio-economic district, I tend to dress in less expensive things and play down my income... don't want to be pretentious!

      I think the real question to ask is are 'things' important to you vs. money. I see people get into problems when they want things.... just gotta have that purse or new cell phone etc. The love of things is what can make or break that happiness of one's view of life.

      I voted can't complain, but I am actually ok and satisfied with my place...

      E

      • 2 votes
      Reply#3 - Sun Mar 21, 2010 11:29 AM EDT
      henry1966

      I think the real question to ask is are 'things' important to you vs. money. I see people get into problems when they want things.... just gotta have that purse or new cell phone etc. The love of things is what can make or break that happiness of one's view of life.

      That's interesting. Because it almost seems that we as a society become more attached to " things" as you described than to what matters the most, the people around us, our loved ones. Like your point of view Erich, thanks for tuning in and sharing that.

        #3.1 - Sun Mar 21, 2010 2:29 PM EDT
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        Holly-348328

        I try not to get on the "but you must earn more" merry-go-round. I can't complain.

        • 1 vote
        Reply#4 - Sun Mar 21, 2010 8:15 PM EDT
        Lilith41

        I wish I had enough for medical bills so I could get a new used car, but that's a pipe dream as is...

        • 1 vote
        Reply#5 - Sun Mar 21, 2010 8:34 PM EDT
        henry1966

        I wish I had enough for medical bills so I could get a new used car, but that's a pipe dream as is...

        Didn't that change last night?

          #5.1 - Mon Mar 22, 2010 5:31 AM EDT
          Lilith41

          No, henry it didn't. The vote is meaningless to me. It won't change my life much, the way I see it.

          • 2 votes
          #5.2 - Mon Mar 22, 2010 1:39 PM EDT
          henry1966

          I think a lot of people still have to figure out how that is going to effect them.

          • 1 vote
          #5.3 - Mon Mar 22, 2010 2:21 PM EDT
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          Ron KustekDeleted
          menmy2

          I like money because, without it, I can't get myself and my kids the stuff we need and want. I didn't make a boatload of money, but I'm doing okay, in spite of the fact that I lost my job in September. Like Holly, I don't have a lot to complain about because I know that it could be a helluva lot worse. :)

          • 1 vote
          Reply#7 - Mon Mar 22, 2010 12:53 PM EDT
          henry1966

          Thanks for tuning in and you're so right. It always can be worse. Cherish what you have and "try" to stop looking at those who seem to do better.

            Reply#8 - Mon Mar 22, 2010 2:34 PM EDT
            weRdoomed

            Money is very important to me because it means security. I want to be able to care for my family (parents, sister, brother, husband, grandma, future kids). I am up at night worrying that it isn't enough or what if something happens to me?

            I make my primary income as a ballet dancer (what if I trip and cannot work?), I work evenings at a funeral home doing paperwork, and I teach ballet lessons to little ones any time I am free. I just want to be able to rest without guilt or worry.

            I don't want things...I want peace of mind.

            • 1 vote
            Reply#9 - Mon Mar 22, 2010 5:20 PM EDT
            henry1966

            I don't want things...I want peace of mind.

            I like that sentence. Ballet dancer? Wow, I know that's way more difficult than people think. Thanks for tuning in weRdoomed.

              #9.1 - Tue Mar 23, 2010 4:12 AM EDT
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              Jim Helbig

              Talk about a perfect curve, the poll, after I cast my vote, was 9-27-27-27-9 with 0% for other. I guess almost everybody feels like they're underpaid, but I really am! No, really, I'm not kidding!

              • 2 votes
              Reply#10 - Mon Mar 22, 2010 7:36 PM EDT
              Holly-348328

              I hope you can get that resolved soon, Jim.

                #10.1 - Mon Mar 22, 2010 9:19 PM EDT
                Jim Helbig

                Holly, do you mean the more money part or the perfect curve part? If only I could have kept that job at ABC Company..............

                • 1 vote
                #10.2 - Mon Mar 22, 2010 10:48 PM EDT
                Holly-348328

                I really should introduce you to the guy with the toner. . .

                • 1 vote
                #10.3 - Mon Mar 22, 2010 11:12 PM EDT
                henry1966

                I guess almost everybody feels like they're underpaid, but I really am! No, really, I'm not kidding!

                Actually Jim, I think I'm overpaid and I'm not kidding either. And thinking you were not being sarcastic and out of curiosity I want you to ask what you do for a profession. Only that, leave it up to you of course to answer that or not :-)

                • 1 vote
                #10.4 - Tue Mar 23, 2010 4:15 AM EDT
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